Family is the basis for true happiness

March 9th, 2010

Visiting Mirae and Jolie last May in Columbus, OH

We love our family! It is so fun to visit with the grandchildren who live far away when we can, and to have family nearby so we can get to know them well and they can get to know us too. We try to visit with them as often as possible. Thank goodness for telephones and for blogs, and other means by which we can keep in touch with each other. Family events where we get together with extended family are less frequent

With Mom's family at the Orem Cemetery

but very meaningful because they don’t happen so often and because we see our relatives from previous generations we used to spend a lot of time with. Now we and they have our own progeny to spend our time with so our ties, although strong as always, are less often revisited with activities together. Reunions are fun each year or few years, and it is always good to renew our relationship with our extended family members. We look forward to seeing them this coming summer!

Snow then sun, then snow, then sun…

March 6th, 2010

Here is what it looked like the other morning after I came home from work.

It is that time of year… it snows one day and then the next it is 50 degree farenheit. Then the next day it clouds up and snows again. This week finished up with a storm. The snow started early Thursday evening and when I went home Friday morning I had to sweep at least six inches of snow off of the car. I shoveled the walks when I came home and a few hours later the neighbors came by again with a four-wheeler that had a plow on the front, clearing off all the walks. The snow continued for part of the day but it warmed up and the plows were out, to the snow on the street didn’t last too long.

A Lot of snow in the road near Deep Creek Reservoir in Western Maryland

Now mind you I am not complaining about it, heaven forbid we get even a small taste of the humongous storms that have plauged the eastern states for the past month! However it is interesting that in the west we have had relatively small snow amounts (remember the Olympics in the northwest? Not enough snow!) but the east has really been pounded. The picture at the left is from my siter-in-law and was taken by someone to show how much snow is on the ground in Maryland. We still have snow on the grass here, but the afternoon was fairly warm. The low temperature last night was below freezing. Not only was there snow left on the ground but heavy frost on the windows this morning. A nice contrast to the last few days. Last April after a few weeks of spring weather we had a huge snowstorm that left almost a foot in our front yard and hundreds of trees in the city with broken branches. Hopefully we will get more snow and rain this spring; we really need the moisture. Northern Utah is currently only at about 65 percent of normal for precipitation while southern Utah is about 130 percent of normal. They may have flooding again in that part of the state. All we can hope and pray for is enough moisture because with the population increase here and the demands of the western and soutwestern states for more of the water we are already supplying, we need all we can handle.

Birthday time again!

March 5th, 2010

Grandma Hill celebrated her 87th birthday a few weeks ago. Several of her daughters went to her home and fixed lunch for her and them, and stayed to have a nice lunch party for her. Happy Birthday Grandma! We love you and hope you are around a long time to give your love and example to your grandchildren and great-grandchildren!

A NEW SHIRT!!

Quentin and Sharisse came to our home tonight and we had a nice dinner and birthday celebration with them. WE don’t get to see them as often as we would like to since they live about an hour away, and work keeps them busy along with school and other commitments. Sharisse made a wonderful birthday cake and Tamara made some delicious cheese rolls to go with the wonderful dinner Mom prepared. We invited everyone and they all came, so we had Rosie, Tamara, Charlotte and their families along with the four of us at home. It was a pretty good crowd. Dad was asleep through dinner but got up in time to get some cake and take photos of Quentin opening some gifts. I think you might say that he “did pretty well” considering what Sharisse got for him along with the rest of us.

More goodies for his birthday.

It is so fun to have everyone together, something we need to do more often because the family is growing and growing. Two more grandchildren will be coming along in the next few months, for which we are very excited. We are so grateful for each of our children and it was fun to have then and our grandkids here tonight!

Technology is Really Fascinating — and FUN!

March 4th, 2010

First screen shot of the family.

Devin and I arranged for a Skype session today. It was morning for us, evening for them. We were at home in Utah, they were at their home in Finland. We missed each other a few times but we got together at 9:10 am local time, which was 6:10 pm Helsinki time. They had already had their dinner! When we started, they had not done this before and although I could see them I could not hear them. They could see and hear me so we gestured to each other a little bit to understand. Soon Devin found a small lapel microphone that he plugged in, and then I could hear them too. HOW FUN! We chatted about the weather differences there and here, about their new house,
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Devin with the three older kids.

about their adventures getting to school because they still don’t have their own car, and about the large snowfall in Helsinki. Josh said they had to have someone help them because they got into a snowbank one day. The plows appaarently can’t keep up with the snowfall even though they try, so Devin said the snow on the streets was a lot like Rexburg Idaho was. (Emily did not disagree, so it must be like that!) They showed us their playroom but the rest of the house will have to wait until they get their wireless network running. I feel bad that I didn’t think of taking screen captures while Peter was very close to the camera. Well, next time!
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Devin with Andrew and Josh, Emily behind them.

Josh also said he has been ice skating, and that at school they “played in the snow all day today”. They didn’t see any of the Olympics but heard that Finland was in the semi-finals for hockey. I have heard that Skype has a tool that will let you save the video session, so I will look into that soon. We chatted for almost 30 minutes and then when the kids could no longer let each other hold the microphone without wanting it themselves, “it was bedtime” so we ended our conversation. What an amazing experience! Next time we need to sing some Primary songs together, won’t that be fun? Maybe a little home Evening Lesson could be a part of what we do too. We look forward to seeing them again soon!

Treats for one of our MTC Missionary Friends

March 3rd, 2010

Preparing goodies for delivery

We live close enough to the MTC that taking little items to the local delivery company is fairly easy when we find something we want to ship to friends and relaties we know in the MTC. Here Kristen and Amy have finished preparing a “care package” for Sara, now in her last week at the MTC. If you want to write or send something to her before she leaves the country you have better do it right away! Please remember extended family members who are serving missions in your prayers. We want to be better at writing to them and hope you will also try to write to them more often too. We all know how meaningful letters from home or from relatives and friends are. I remember looking forward to the mail and reading about what was going on in the lives of others. Lets not “forget” them! This time of the year when it is getting warmer I am certain that it is just as hard for them to be in class (or out proselyting) as it is for our children and grandchildren. Thank you for your service, Elders and Sisters!

A New Orchestra Member Plays Debut Broadcast

March 1st, 2010

Mark, Neil and Mike in Conference Center lower hallway

A new trombone player was on stage for the Sunday Music and the Spoken Word Broadcast this past weekend. Neil joined the brass section for the first time to perform with the orchestra since he was called last Summer after vigorous recuiting effors by one of the Associate Orchestra Managers. Neil has had a distinguished carreer already,

Debut performer with his choir-member brothers

performing as a substitute with the Utah Sympnony Orchestra, and as a regular player in the orchestras of Utah Ballet and Pioneer Memorial Theatre, and with the Salt Lake Jazz Ensemble. His work with his high school choir keeps him very busy as well as his frequent adjudication jobs around the country. These have precluded the possibility of singing with the choir since his available time is found at odd times during the year. We look forward to seeing him more often in future performances and are excited to welcome another family member into the Choir organization.

A Celebration of Life

February 17th, 2010

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US Wins Gold in Men's Figure Skating

As we have seen portions of the Olympic Games broadcast from Canada this week we have thought many times about the many talents that each person participating in the games has worked so hard to develop and use. In spite of the differences between cultures we have also seen a lot of comaraderie amonst the participants; more than I would have expected to see, especially at times between countries that have had less than friendly relationships in other venues. It reminds me of the 2002 Winter Games in Salt Lake City where there were concerts and other cultural events referred to as the “Cultural Olympiad” where music making and other fine arts were shared with the Olympic Audiences in the evenings. At the same time I have thought about a family who went on a local skiing trip last week and had to come home without their patriarch.

Stephen Rowley

Steven Rowley went with his family members to enjoy an evening of skiing, leaving his wife and one of his sons at home because they had other commitments. They never saw him alive again and the injuries that caused his death at age 52 are somewhat of a mystery. He was found unconscious somewhere on the hill with severe internal injuries and was not able to be revived by EMTs on the scene. We attended his funeral services today, which were a celebration of his life and that of his family. It was a combination of happy and sad as events which filled his life were explained and described. His family loves him and he loved them too. They will be alright but the pain and sorrow will take some time to overcome. We pray for them as well as others who may be in the same situation. The athletes at the Olympics did their best today. Some won gold medals, others with high expectations had unexpected issues and were out of the running even before the final events in their fields. Life is precious. We all need to look at the positive side of every situation and stop dwelling on negative things. The circumstances we find ourselves in, whatever they may be, could probably be worse than they are. Think of the people in Haiti. Many of them have lost absolutely everything. We need to be more grateful for what we have, including friends and family, homes, relative peace, health, and food.

Debris left on the freeway can be deadly

February 8th, 2010

We were on our way to St. George for the UMEA Convention about midnight Thursday night after choir rehearsal, hoping to get there soon enough to get a few hours sleep before having to go to the convention center. Mom decided to go so we left a little later than I had hoped to get away. As we approached the South Nephi/Levan exit I suddenly saw in the darkness what I thought was a large living room sofa in the middle of my lane. I swerved into the left lane (there was no other traffic) and hit it with a somewhat glancing blow that ended up breaking off the passenger side of my front bumper, just missing the headlight, and pulling halfway off the rear bumper cover so it now drags on the ground when driving. We pulled off to the side of the road to see what damage it had caused, and hoped to get back to it and move it off of the road so someone else would not also hit it. As soon as I got out of the car, a semi hit it dead center and pulled off to the side of the road behind us. The truck driver and I went back to see what it was, joined by Mom.

Expanded metal shelf on steel frame

Expanded metal shelf on steel frame

It ended up being one of those shelves made of tubular steel covered with expanded metal, designed to fit into the receiver for a trailer hitch on the back of a car, smaller than the ones on pickups and cars like our Suburban. This shelf had at least two dozen backpacks and duffle bags with clothing, shoes, and other personal effects including library books and homework that were now scattered in a wide area across both lanes of traffic southbound on the freeway.
Debris scattered across both freeway lanes.

Debris scattered across both freeway lanes.

The photo of the debris field is lighted by the headlights of two highway patrol cruisers on high beam and taken from near the cars looking west. The semi can be seen on the upper-right of the photo. We were parked in front of it. When debris like this is encountered by someone driving a smaller vehicle it can be very dangerous if it is hit, and also dangerous because of those trying to swerve around such obstacles if there is traffic.
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Here is the broken-off corner that hit the debris

Please be aware of things you may be transporting and report any kind of debris immediately to the highway patrol so it can be removed from the road space as quickly as possible. This debris in the road caused several thousand dollars of damage to the two vehicles that hit it. I believe that if I had hit this directly we could have been very seriously injured or killed. I am grateful that we were not hurt and the semi driver was not hurt either. We were both quite upset at the situation but also pacified that neither of us were injured personally.

The Problem With America’s Debt

February 3rd, 2010

I thought the following was an excellent essay on why the national debt is such a big issue. Thanks Glenn!

Published Tuesday , February 02, 2010 on FOX NEWS, By Glenn Beck
glenn_beck_debt_2I want to talk to you about a couple things.
First, we need to stop living in a fantasy. America has fundamentally changed: We’re not going back to where it was unless we admit we have a problem. And it’s all based on one word: debt.

As Thomas Jefferson wrote to James Madison in 1789:
“Then I say, the Earth belongs to each of these generations during its course, fully and in its own right. The second generation receives it clear of the debts and incumbrances of the first, the third of the second, and so on. For if the first could charge it with a debt, then the earth would belong to the dead and not to the living generation. Then, no generation can contract debts greater than may be paid during the course of its own existence.”
Remember the debt clock? When I looked at it the other day, I was really encouraged. Take a look: Does anything jump out at you?
One line is actually going down: personal debt. Across the whole line, our personal debt is shrinking.
Now, my first hope was that hey, maybe that’s the common sense effect. People have actually listened and gotten out of debt; they’ve stopped spending money they don’t have on credit!
Uh, no. Unfortunately, that’s not it.
People aren’t paying off their debts; they’re defaulting on them. When you default on a credit card loan, the money goes back up on the “national debt” line. It’s the same thing with mortgages.
Now let’s compare a couple of charts.
If this were a normal time, we’d assume that drop in residential mortgage loans outstanding meant that people are paying off their mortgages. But we know it’s not normal times because it’s coupled with a spike in the number of distressed mortgages. The banks are foreclosing on so many mortgages and so many people are delinquent, they aren’t paying.
You may as well make me the Grim Reaper today, but the bad news is banks are not foreclosing on as many mortgages as they should.
The banks don’t want to foreclose on the mortgages or the credit cards because they’d have to write it off. Which means more money from the Fed in their reserve and they’d be telling clients “uh-huh, we are in trouble.” So they are just leaving them alone. And beyond that, they are motivated because Big Brother is standing over their shoulder saying “don’t foreclose on these people! If you do we are coming after you.” It’s that attitude that caused the problem in the first place. The same thing is happening with credit card debt.
So now what? We keep hearing from progressives that the federal debt is not like personal debt; we just can’t comprehend it. With the federal debt, we have to spend our way out of this recession — as Congressman Clyburn just said:
REP. JAMES CLYBURN, D-S.C.: We are not going to save our way out of this recession. We’ve got to spend our way out of this recession.
That doesn’t make any sense, but that is what TARP is all about. Remember that $700 billion that took our breath away? That’s just a down payment; it’s actually a slush fund they can draw from as long as they want.
Our problem is, we haven’t learned from history. Most Americans are completely unaware of the huge bailout of 1895. Back then there was a massive financial problem and, like this time, a bailout. Only this wasn’t the government bailing out big, evil corporations. In 1895, it was a big, evil corporation bailing out the U.S. government.
Mainly because of the Sherman Silver Purchase Act, U.S. Treasury reserves had shrunk to under $100 million. The federal government was just about broke. So, J.P. Morgan and his group stepped in to replenish the United States government with $62 million in gold reserves to shore it up.
Morgan had already bailed out the U.S. Army payroll in 1877. By 1907, after Morgan also bailed out Wall Street, there was sentiment that we should get away from J.P. Morgan and not be beholden to him. The progressives at that time made the case that we should never owe anyone like that; that owing them that much would give them too much control.
Now, fast-forward 100 years and J.P. Morgan’s bank — JP Morgan Chase — is bailed out by the U.S. government and is now being vilified for it. The progressives learned the lesson; JP Morgan Chase forgot it. And the rest of us all stood by and should have seen all of this coming.
Just like it was bad that the government was owned by J.P. Morgan, it’s equally as bad to have the government own JP Morgan Chase; the bank owning the government would tell government what to do, just like the government is now telling banks what to do.
With J.P. Morgan at the turn of the century it was his gold. But this isn’t the government’s gold. Where is the government borrowing the money to control the banks? China.
So? Why is that bad? Why shouldn’t we borrow all this money from China?
Well, when I first became a small businessman, I vowed not to borrow any money. I remember telling my dad, who owned a bakery, “You don’t have a boss.” He replied, “Everyone has a boss. My boss is the bank.”
Mr. President, everyone has a boss. Our president’s boss is now the bank of China.
When we found out that China was selling our children lead painted toys and poisoned dog food, did anyone wonder why George Bush didn’t say anything? Imagine if an American or British company were selling our kids chewable, lead-based toys? We would have hammered them. Why didn’t we say anything to China? For the same reason you usually don’t stick your finger in your boss’s chest: You don’t bite the hand that feeds you!
China now rules the world. Worse, the White House has gone even further for China. The White House has directed U.S. spy agencies to lower the priority placed on intelligence collection on China, resulting in opposition from top agents who fear the move will badly hit efforts to obtain secrets about Beijing’s military program and its cyber attacks on U.S. targets.
But don’t worry. I’m told by contacts with the CIA, that we only experience cyber attacks from China daily.
When we can’t say “stay away from our secrets” because we can’t lose their money, we’ve become slaves to them. But beyond just being afraid to stand up to them; maybe this is some sort of payment to the Chinese.
By not tracking their spy activities we’re actually just paying a higher interest rate on our loans or when we allow them to steal our “stealth technology,” maybe that’s a payment on the principle. I’ve said before, as soon as China demands a higher interest rate, it’s over. And everyone said, no, no, that’ll never happen. That’s not in their best interest.
Really? What is this move by Obama? But don’t worry about it, Obama told us during the State of the Union that we’ll double our exports — so, even if they steal all our stuff, we’ll still make it anyway and we’ll just make it cheaper than they do, right?
We’re already hearing, as we did during the State of the Union address, that the worst of this is over. They’ll start pointing to the GDP growth in the 4th quarter of around 5.7 percent as proof that they have fixed the problem. But they haven’t. They haven’t spent two-thirds of the stimulus money yet because they’re saving it for election season this fall. The Democrats need it to look like our economic problems have been solved.
But here’s our problem: Our debt is unsustainable. There is no J.P. Morgan who can loan us $107 trillion. We long ago dropped the gold standard. We don’t manufacture anything to sell for profit anymore.
Even during the Great Depression, we had three things missing from the terrible situation we faced then, that are not missing now:
One: massive debt was missing. Our debt to GDP ration in 1929 was about 16.3 percent. In 2009 it was 83 percent. This year it’s estimated that it will be 94 percent and in 2011 it will be 99 percent. Unsustainable.
Two: unfunded liabilities. There was no Social Security or Medicare program to fund. This is our most crushing debt — $107 trillion and counting. There is no way to ever pay that off.
Three: We didn’t have the total personal debt. People were not living lifestyles on credit.
So what can we do with a debt that is unsustainable? We can get out of debt ourselves. We can take control of our personal financial situation.
In 1907, Americans thought it was a terrible thing to be beholden to JP Morgan. We believed that it gave him too much clout and influence over the government. But today, we are infinitely more beholden to communist China.
The $65 million J.P. Morgan loaned the government in 1895 is equivalent to more than $1.6 billion today. Well, our current debt is $12 trillion and, as I mentioned, we’ve promised $107 trillion.
Who owns us? I’d rather be owned by J.P. Morgan — an American. We owe this money to communists — even the Soviet Union wouldn’t borrow money from their enemies.
You might say, “Oh Glenn, that’s ridiculous. China’s a great trading partner. There’s no problem there!” Really? Remember the poisoned toys; the poisoned dog food; the Clinton influence-buying scandal? Remember that we sold seaports in California to China? And now, we’re taking them off the spy list. Do we really think they’re not going to steal anything? Come on!
Illegal copies of “Harry Potter” popped up in China before the ink was even dry on the originals — unauthorized, incredibly bizarre stories stealing J.K. Rowling’s beloved characters and work, including a version of the boy wizard as a fat, hairy dwarf. China’s response? So sue us. No one did.
Our national debt has become a freakish, fat, hairy giant that’s stealing from our children’s future and dishonoring our Founders in the past.

The New Year

January 19th, 2010

Derek gets ready to blow out the candles on his cake.

Opening gifts!

We have begun all over again with birthday gatherings for the year, and all of us are one year older! We celebrated Derek’s birthday on Monday and more are coming! I am still getting used to writing 2010 in my case logs at work. I don’t write many checks but those of you who do have probably already found yourselves writing 2009 once in a while. We were so happy to share our home with Tamara and David and their children from Christmas Eve to last week. They are now living in the home David grew up in, which is only about 5 blocks away. Their children go to the same school their parents attended and seem to be enjoying it well enough. It is hard to believe that our eldest grandchild will be eleven in a few months! The New Year always brings an opportunity for reflection on the past and for the promise and hope of a better tomorrow.
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CD Cover

The Tabernacle Choir has just released a new CD that promises to be very successful. “Heavensong” is a collection of rather quiet, contemplative music that will be peaceful and will evoke restful thoughts as well as introspection in quiet moments of your day. You will enjoy its softer tones as a contrast to many of the famous large-scale and exuberant presentations for which the choir is so famous. Hearing 350 voices sing pianissimo is really a treat, and something that is not often experienced by way of recordings. For more detail on this new addition to the offerings of the choir please see the information at http://mormontabernaclechoir.org/products/product?product_id=635.